The fluorescent lights of the assisted living facility have a way of buzzing that gets under your skin if you sit still long enough. I moved into this place in April, packing my life into three cardboard boxes because my daughter said the stairs in my old house were becoming a liability. I guess she was right. I spend most of my afternoons staring out the window at the parking lot, watching the cars come and go, wondering why I ever thought I had so much to do in a day. It is a quiet life, mostly. Then yesterday, the nursing staff brought in a new resident to share my room. Her name was Margaret. She arrived with a small suitcase and a cardboard box of photographs, moving with a kind of deliberate slowness that told me she was tired of being pushed around by the world.